How not to take things personally? | Frederik Imbo | TEDxMechelen

Frederik Imbo studied theatre at the Royal Conservatory of Ghent and has acted in lots of television series. He founded Imboorling and now has over 15 years' experience in stimulating and supporting people. With the aim of improving their communication skills Frederik gives presentations, workshops, training courses and personal coaching sessions to anyone prepared to make their two ears available.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  1. May Hai

    May Hai

    Πριν 19 λεπτά

    Aaaaaaaaaahhhhh .

  2. Clutch Cargo

    Clutch Cargo

    Πριν ώρα

    Excellent talk - thx - this was a big help !

  3. Rachel Buquet

    Rachel Buquet

    Πριν ώρα

    Is this man taken?! What a gem!

  4. mimosa pudica

    mimosa pudica

    Πριν 2 ώρες

    wow this is one of my super favorite ted talks!! it made me feel a little better about myself. thank you so much for this, sir!! 💕

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    VRidgeLand Scaping

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  6. TheGuide

    TheGuide

    Πριν 2 ώρες

    Why can't they teach this stuff in school? Could have saved me years of unnecessary pain thinking everything is about me. 😭😪😭

  7. Romantico Poeta

    Romantico Poeta

    Πριν 2 ώρες

    "Seems like crowd its more busy on there iphones.

  8. BlueSkies AndClouds

    BlueSkies AndClouds

    Πριν 2 ώρες

    A very clear, engaging and structured talk with a powerful finish! I also love the smooth transitions from one subject to another - had my attention from start to finish. Thank you! 😊 👏

  9. Seva Team

    Seva Team

    Πριν 4 ώρες

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

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    Lonniea Cheeks

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  11. Alexandra Holden

    Alexandra Holden

    Πριν 4 ώρες

    Thank you. In a time such as this your words speak volumes

  12. Malak Wesam

    Malak Wesam

    Πριν 6 ώρες

    It was outstanding speech ❤️

  13. Tricia Shortridge

    Tricia Shortridge

    Πριν 7 ώρες

    Wow! His speech was very entertaining and spot on. I have the same things he described.

  14. Roman Boyzov Photography & Videography

    Roman Boyzov Photography & Videography

    Πριν 9 ώρες

    Great leason

  15. MAKEUP TUBE

    MAKEUP TUBE

    Πριν 9 ώρες

    But being neglected by loved one hurts

  16. Viraj Gorde

    Viraj Gorde

    Πριν 10 ώρες

    He sold himself with his last act!

  17. Unfunny Bunny

    Unfunny Bunny

    Πριν 11 ώρες

    I could listen to him talk about anything and everything. He has so much positive energy!

  18. Laxmi Love

    Laxmi Love

    Πριν 15 ώρες

    Thanks a lot! ❤️🙏

  19. Addakula Ashok

    Addakula Ashok

    Πριν 16 ώρες

    Why I thinking if I commented something here what others think

  20. falloutgirl 65

    falloutgirl 65

    Πριν 16 ώρες

    This video helps a lot I used to take Soo many things personally

  21. tanya ye

    tanya ye

    Πριν 17 ώρες

    the last line is the essential

  22. miss aery

    miss aery

    Πριν 20 ώρες

    The real question is, does he use the same 20 euros everytime he gives his talk

  23. Carpediem06

    Carpediem06

    Πριν ημέρα

    the thumbnail looks like Prince Harry.. and im like.. oh.. isn't he the epitomy of currently taking things personally

  24. Matthew Arcati

    Matthew Arcati

    Πριν ημέρα

    The secret is to stop caring !

  25. Alejandro Flaño

    Alejandro Flaño

    Πριν ημέρα

    im taking the silence of the audience personally

  26. Frances Oleander

    Frances Oleander

    Πριν ημέρα

    I especially love the last part of his speech!

  27. Marvini Pereira

    Marvini Pereira

    Πριν ημέρα

    Ted Talk shoud invite David Goggins

  28. Kalle Quist

    Kalle Quist

    Πριν ημέρα

    If u take it personally why should I listen to u? Goodbye

  29. bonnie jean

    bonnie jean

    Πριν ημέρα

    For those who have been " victims " of " cancel culture ", we must remember, we still have value.

  30. May Hai

    May Hai

    Πριν ημέρα

    love.

  31. Prince Flip

    Prince Flip

    Πριν ημέρα

    I hope Mj doesn't see this video 😮

  32. D-DUB

    D-DUB

    Πριν ημέρα

    This is the most connected I have felt with someone in months. Wow. Frederik is an excellent speaker and this topic is what I have struggled with the most through life. I always know the talk has made a lasting imprint if it's got me tearing up with happiness at the end lol. Like finding a solution to what eats at you the most.... or at least a two-way approach to handling it. Thank you so much.

  33. Mohd Shahnawaz

    Mohd Shahnawaz

    Πριν ημέρα

    Absolutely loved this video. Thank you so much for this valuable information:)

  34. Liliane Beeckman

    Liliane Beeckman

    Πριν ημέρα

    Het probleem is dat we dat vrijwel allemaal doen.

  35. triggerpressyes

    triggerpressyes

    Πριν ημέρα

    Horrible feedback and ringing in this video. Almost can’t watch. Nothing personal

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  37. Ghanhsyam Bhavsar

    Ghanhsyam Bhavsar

    Πριν ημέρα

    great!

  38. Adriana B.

    Adriana B.

    Πριν ημέρα

    Really good story telling. I felt like a kid being read a story.

  39. Castro Jesus

    Castro Jesus

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    80% of what we think are negative 🤔 cool...I thought it was just a Baltimore City thing..

  40. A M

    A M

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    I am an Orange

  41. Immortal Miku

    Immortal Miku

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

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  42. Udaysen Mohite

    Udaysen Mohite

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    Brilliant stuff, personally it was an epiphany.

  43. Batuhan Kavlak

    Batuhan Kavlak

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    Actually, referees have coins they are either the ball or the goal.

  44. lol

    lol

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    And i took that personally

  45. zeljka markovic

    zeljka markovic

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    Just brilliant

  46. Gamer007

    Gamer007

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    What an nice guy!

  47. monggyo W

    monggyo W

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    this is an amazing ted talk !

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Monggyo, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable for you. I wish you good luck putting the insights and tips in practice. Sometimes it will work and it will give you a feeling of peace and victory over yourself. On other moments, it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Be gentle with yourself then and above all, be proud on the progress that you're making. I’m cheering you on! Please spread the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with theirselves and others. Warmly, Frederik Imbo

  48. Alex Cowles

    Alex Cowles

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    I'm not crying, you're crying.

  49. Tanmay Singhal

    Tanmay Singhal

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    damn ending was epic❤

    • Tanmay Singhal

      Tanmay Singhal

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      @Frederik Imbo I just had a doubt, what if no-one raised hand to accept that note, what would you do then?

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Thank you Tanmay! Please spread the word!

  50. Adonis Mx

    Adonis Mx

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    That's such a great video

  51. Angel G

    Angel G

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    Sent this to my mom and pops I hope they don’t take it personally

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      And if they do, please don't take it personally. You know how now!

  52. RED exPUA

    RED exPUA

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    Epic

  53. Niranjan Khadka

    Niranjan Khadka

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    I don't feel right about being empathetic to wrong people. How come I compromise on not being right to wrong people. Its tough

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Niranjan. You don't have to anything if it doesn't feel right. You only empathize with someone if you want to. If you feel that you however want to keep your heard open. As long as you don't want it... it means that you're stuck in your ego. Which is not good or bad. It is just was it is. You give empathy because you don't want to feel yourself annoyed or frustrated. You do it because you want to be in peace with the other one.

  54. Victor Carlisle

    Victor Carlisle

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    So excellent. I really needed to hear this.

  55. Al'set Barnabi

    Al'set Barnabi

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    4:30 you'll thank me =)

  56. Mike Banner

    Mike Banner

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    This is a great lesson, given by a sympathetic guy

  57. naijamann

    naijamann

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    Hahahahaha you are describing me... I feel hurt when not acknowledged and take things very personally... thanks for pointing it out .. enjoyed this

    • naijamann

      naijamann

      Πριν ημέρα

      @Frederik Imbo thanks for the assitance.. will share.. ive started practicing not taking things personally.. I'm now conscious of areas to apply it.. my heartbreak..office critisms I'm still myself and have my value..and worth

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Naijamann, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable for you. I wish you good luck putting the insights and tips in practice. Sometimes it will work and it will give you a feeling of peace and victory over yourself. On other moments, it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Be gentle with yourself then and above all, be proud on the progress that you're making. I’m cheering you on! Please spread the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with theirselves and others. Warmly, Frederik Imbo

  58. Karma Llama

    Karma Llama

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    Hey you, yes you 😊. you're probably scrolling through the comments like me. Just remember you are a beautiful person and deserve all the happiness in the world. Take some time to work on you, don't stress about whats going on in the world, or what you are going through. Its time to live your life, we only get one! Things will get better soon, I promise. ❤ Relaxing Music, Karma Llama. ❤

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      How sweet! Thank you.

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  60. 7LAMPS of FIRE

    7LAMPS of FIRE

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    I needed this. Bad! More than food for today. I hear a lot of things that I can transition into my personality and character. This was absolute substance.

  61. J. O.

    J. O.

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    Just that last 1 minute of the video is worth it all! Great message 🥰

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi J.O., Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable for you. I wish you good luck putting the insights and tips in practice. Sometimes it will work and it will give you a feeling of peace and victory over yourself. On other moments, it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Be gentle with yourself then and above all, be proud on the progress that you're making. I’m cheering you on! Please spread the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with theirselves and others. Warmly, Frederik Imbo

  62. Ronaldo Garrosu

    Ronaldo Garrosu

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    Michael Jordan needs to watch this.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Haha indeed Ronaldo. If you know him personally, send him a personal message. At the same time; Michael Jordan only tried to do his very best. He tried to deal with his unfulfilled needs of recognition. He just wanted to be valued.

  63. Maciej Magic

    Maciej Magic

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    Beautiful allegory and amazingly authentic emotional intelligence teachings in the tea break time❤💙💚 Many thanks 😊

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Maciej Magic. Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable for you. I wish you good luck putting the insights and tips in practice. Sometimes it will work and it will give you a feeling of peace and victory over yourself. On other moments, it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Be gentle with yourself then and above all, be proud on the progress that you're making. I’m cheering you on! Please spread the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with theirselves and others. Warmly, Frederik Imbo

  64. Angel Paul

    Angel Paul

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    Thank you for sharing this. It opened me to a whole new perspective of thinking on things that happened to me. It definitely takes a lot of courage and experience to be able to talk and relate to things that hits us so deep. Much appreciation here!

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  66. Renaat Deckers

    Renaat Deckers

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

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    • Renaat Deckers

      Renaat Deckers

      Πριν 17 ώρες

      Mr. Frederck Imbo I’ m telling all my stydents& friends your story of the football- referee! A very fine ted talk! 👍👍

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      @Renaat Deckers You're very welcome Renaat. Graag gedaan.

    • Renaat Deckers

      Renaat Deckers

      Πριν 3 ημέρες

      Thank you Frederick Imbo

  67. Homéostasie999

    Homéostasie999

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    Very cool

  68. Josh Easy

    Josh Easy

    Πριν 3 ημέρες

    Wow great ending, I read during the video similar comments to mine but didn’t expect that at the end, thank gosh ppl didn’t spoil the ending .. great quality video & lesson .. always remember your value .. 🙏🏾

  69. Mr.WolfmanPlushies

    Mr.WolfmanPlushies

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Amazing Advice

  70. bees wasps

    bees wasps

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    I think the reason you don't take it personally when someone calls you an orange is because it is just a ridiculous thing to say to some one

  71. bees wasps

    bees wasps

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Sometimes you do have to take things personally

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Bees Wasps. If you mean that 'taking things personally' helps you to come up for yourself and let the other one see and feel that he does something that crosses a boundary, feel free to do it. I'm only concerned then that your reaction might be quite punishing and agression. And that could lead to a conflict. But of course, you can do whatever you want. As long as you're willing to take the consequences of your behaviour then.

  72. light throw clouds

    light throw clouds

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

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  73. AHSAN ALAM

    AHSAN ALAM

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    beautiful!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Thank you Ahsan.

  74. Diane Gyemi

    Diane Gyemi

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Loved the ending!!!! Impactful!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Diane. Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable for you. I wish you good luck putting the insights and tips in practice. Sometimes it will work and it will give you a feeling of peace and victory over yourself. On other moments, it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Be gentle with yourself then and above all, be proud on the progress that you're making. I’m cheering you on! Please spread the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with theirselves and others. Warmly, Frederik Imbo

  75. southlondon86

    southlondon86

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Thank you Frederik! I take everything personally so I really needed this. I’m definitely going to practice strengthening my ability to handle criticism. Like with anything else in life, it’s all strengthened through practice. 👍

  76. ROPHEKA WA MANZAMBI

    ROPHEKA WA MANZAMBI

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Oh great job moreover the conclusion🇨🇩🙏🏽🙏🏽✌️

    • ROPHEKA WA MANZAMBI

      ROPHEKA WA MANZAMBI

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      @Frederik Imbo thank you sir. I experienced some parts of your speech in 2020 which was a difficult year for the all world but for me it was a great year to know or discover myself as person besides a spiritual man (I serve God). 2020 left me with testimonies 🇨🇩 again Great Job sir.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Ropheka, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable for you. I wish you good luck putting the insights and tips in practice. Sometimes it will work and it will give you a feeling of peace and victory over yourself. On other moments, it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Be gentle with yourself then and above all, be proud on the progress that you're making. I’m cheering you on! Please spread the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with theirselves and others. Warmly, Frederik Imbo

  77. huỳnh nguyễn

    huỳnh nguyễn

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    “People may attack you, criticise you, or ignore you. They can crumple you up with their words, spit you out, or even walk all over you. But remember, whatever they do or say, you will always keep your value.” - This just hit me so hard. When I take things personally, I always get mad and sometimes fight back ( argue) with the person talked about me (of course things got worse) but after realizing what he said, the more I fight back the more value I lost (wasting my time and becoming more toxic, harmful person). Thank you for this incredible TEDtalk, it help me a lot in becoming a better man

  78. Man Them

    Man Them

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Kisss

  79. Charles Lalawigan

    Charles Lalawigan

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Michael Jordan disagrees btw

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Haha indeed Charles. If you know him personally, send him a personal message. At the same time; Michael Jordan only tried to do his very best. He tried to deal with his unfulfilled needs of recognition. He just wanted to be valued.

  80. J B

    J B

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Wow! This is one of the best talks I've ever seen and the best closing statement.

  81. James Cool

    James Cool

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Frederik looks just like his compatriot; Kevin De Bruyne. Hahaha. But yes, it was one of the greatest Tedx talks. Thank you

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi James, you're not the first one who says it. Kevin DeBruyne was born in 1991. I was born in 1975. So I really take it as a compliment!

  82. Nali Shield

    Nali Shield

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    What if , you don't take it personally and let it go, it will hurt you. Let's say, they say u can't be a referee, but u know u can (being right), how can u take that not personally (The job applications not allowing you, because they say, you can't be a referee either, u should just be a player).

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Nali. A very interesting question you have there. I believe that even when someone is not giving you a job, their intention is positive... for themselves. They just want someone else. Of course, that doesn't mean that what you experience is nice. It might be very painful. BUT... then it means that this pain was already inside of you. The other one only touched that pain by saying what he said. So the key is to work on yourself by starting to be more gentle with yourself and give yourself compassion and develop your self love. If you do that, and become to truly love and appreciate yourself, the other can do whatever he wants, it will less and less hurt you, because you know that it isn't true. As long as it still hurts, it means that you're still struggling with yourself. All the seawater in the world can't sink a ship, unless the ship takes on water. All the negativity in the world can't touch you, unless you let it...

  83. Floyd John Barbin

    Floyd John Barbin

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Awwwwww loved it.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Floyd. Thank you for watching my talk and thanks for your kind response. Good luck applying the insights and tips.

  84. Hasitha Mapalagama

    Hasitha Mapalagama

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    My EGO is so high, I never thought its me.

    • Hasitha Mapalagama

      Hasitha Mapalagama

      Πριν ημέρα

      @Frederik Imbo Yes. Especially the "Its about me and speak up" part of the video. Great talk @Frederik Imbo

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Hasitha. So, did you learn something from it?

  85. borgoat12

    borgoat12

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    4:46 "It's our ego." It's not "ego." It's self-esteem. There's a difference. "Ego" is conceit, while self-esteem is self-worth. As a hypothetical example, if someone's friends exclude her/him from an activity, that person who's excluded may feel slighted and suffer a loss in self-esteem. That person who's excluded may feel she/he is not good enough or worthy of inclusion. That hurts. It's actually "ego" for the friends doing the excluding because on some level, they erroneously believe they're in a more stable social position than the excluded friend due to their being in the "in-group," and they may be too blinded by "ego" to realise their self-delusion. But of course, they're the ones who are obviously in a less stable social position because "in-group" is fragile and inevitably collapses as one by one, the members of the "in-group" leave to do other things. In contrast, the excluded person who enjoys her/his own company, loves her/himself, and can have fun on her/his own need not worry about social stability because in a group of one, she/he can never be thrown out or left behind, and she/he has full control over her/his happiness and feel self-assured that that happiness does not depend on validation from others. And that's the foundation of truly resilient, long-lasting self-esteem.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Borgoat. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. The difference between self-esteem and EGO is that self-esteem is being in contact with your needs consciously. The EGO only thinks that the other one did something bad and therefore must be punished.

  86. Lew White

    Lew White

    Πριν 5 ημέρες

    Look up this psychological-abuse term: GASLIGHTING. There are some people who do this to everyone around them, and build up a kind of gang-mentality against "others" they focus too much on. When you realize this kind of abuse has been used on you, the abuser's attempts to control, blame, or judge you becomes obvious. As Yahusha said, "If you abide in My Word, you are truly My disciples, and you will know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free." [Yahukanon 8:31-32]

  87. im just saucy

    im just saucy

    Πριν 5 ημέρες

    bro that ending spoke absolute volumes.just wow

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi 'I'm just saucy', Thank you for watching my talk and thanks for your kind response. Good luck applying the insights and tips.

  88. Mashaer Alkhatrawi

    Mashaer Alkhatrawi

    Πριν 5 ημέρες

    I have hard time re- shifting my thinking but hopefully after this talk I remember “ it’s not about me “ and it’s EGO .. thanks for this presentation 🙏🏽

  89. A D

    A D

    Πριν 5 ημέρες

    Tysm! No one would ever teach me this.

  90. Micelius Beverus

    Micelius Beverus

    Πριν 5 ημέρες

    Well, to be honest, it's often more useful to be right than happy... And you can be mindlessly happy just cheating yourself... but these are cheap tricks to me, I don't buy it. Of course it is advisable not to ponder too much on our failures, let alone get depressed by them... But it shouldn't come at the cost of blindfolding yourself to reality... And a football referee should know about it damn well. Am I to think they don't strive to be professional, just seek an occasion to practise happiness no matter what players and spectators see? 😎

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Micelius, thank you for your response. I respect your opinion, although I do not agree.

  91. saurabh kale

    saurabh kale

    Πριν 5 ημέρες

    Feeling relaxed after hearing it.🙂

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Thank you for letting it me know Saurabh Kale.

  92. Asad Marji

    Asad Marji

    Πριν 5 ημέρες

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  93. Wendy Gillett

    Wendy Gillett

    Πριν 5 ημέρες

    Thank you for this presentation. I admire your public speaking abilities and the topic was excellent too. I needed to hear what you said. Being the scapegoat in my family, I am sensitive to perceived slight or criticism, even after years of therapy. You gave me a new way of responding to my ego when it is poked. Thanks again.

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    Πριν 5 ημέρες

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    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      haha!

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  97. Zachary Thomas

    Zachary Thomas

    Πριν 6 ημέρες

    great speech but I like how whenever he asked a question to the audience there was just silence

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Zachary. The audience was quite quiet indeed. That is because hardly any sound was recorded from the reactions in the room. As a result, some reactions were added afterwards in the editing. The silent audience makes many suspect that they didn't find it interesting ... And you know, that's possible. Or they didn't like my style, or they were tired, or... or... Anyway; whatever the reason was, luckily I didn't take that personally :-)

  98. Sal Cibella

    Sal Cibella

    Πριν 6 ημέρες

    Thank you for this. I needed it.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Hi Sal Cibella. Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable for you. I wish you good luck putting the insights and tips in practice. Sometimes it will work and it will give you a feeling of peace and victory over yourself. On other moments, it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Be gentle with yourself then and above all, be proud on the progress that you're making. I’m cheering you on! Please spread the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with theirselves and others. Warmly, Frederik Imbo

  99. Ivan Gee

    Ivan Gee

    Πριν 6 ημέρες

    Michael Jordan has left the chat

    • Ivan Gee

      Ivan Gee

      Πριν ημέρα

      @Frederik Imbo I loved your speech, it helped me realise that the only way to get over my fear is to not avoid it but to tackle it head on! Forever grateful bro!

    • Ivan Gee

      Ivan Gee

      Πριν ημέρα

      @Frederik Imbo I loved your speech, it helped me realise that the only way to get over my fear is to not avoid it but to tackle it head on! Forever grateful bro!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Πριν 2 ημέρες

      Haha indeed Ivan Gee. If you know him personally, send him a personal message. At the same time; Michael Jordan only tried to do his very best. He tried to deal with his unfulfilled needs of recognition. He just wanted to be valued.

  100. Trexy Crocs

    Trexy Crocs

    Πριν 6 ημέρες

    and I took that personally

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